In some ways managing the family finances is a lot easier than those of a business. After all, there are no invoices to write or debtors to chase. In other ways family finance management can be a lot more challenging.
When I went to school, household budgeting was not on the curriculum, and Maths was generally regarded as something to be endured. Most parents did not teach their children financial management, resulting in a generation for whom household bookkeeping is much harder than it should be.
I first learnt basic bookkeeping from my mum’s family business and applied those skills at university, leaving with a significant saving on my student grant, and no need to work during term time. Here are a few of the things that helped me.
• I set up a spreadsheet based on my bank statements to record money in and out of my account.
• I recorded all bank expenditure (even if it was just £1).
• Every month I checked the spreadsheet against the bank statements. Yes, banks do sometimes make mistakes and sometimes scammers target private accounts hoping to get away with stealing more before they get found out. By checking my bank statements, I discovered, and reversed, an overdraft fine.
• Researching my known expenses and planning ahead. I memorised how much I needed for perishable food each week, the cost of the various groups I attended, where to find value for money items I would use, the cost of the bus and how far the walk to the shops was. Knowing my options enabled me to make wise money saving decisions and an accurate budget.
• I had two budgets. One for my regular spending (eg, food and entertainment) and one for my non-regular spending (eg, annual rent and transport home for the holidays). The regular spending budget was subdivided into a weekly and monthly allowance while the non-regular spending was set aside as untouchable unless the expense had been planned for.
• The surplus from one week’s budget was not allowed to roll into the next week’s budget. By using a fixed budget, I was able to save even without a regular income.
• Being willing to compromise. For my monthly big shop, I took two rucksacks, some shoulder bags and a strict rule, “If I can’t carry it, I can’t have it.” This made it a lot easier to stay within budget and to stick to my shopping list.
• Write a shopping list and stick to it. Yes, I always included “a treat”, but I knew it had to be small or it would not fit in my bags and I would need to return it or go without something I needed.
• Being willing to say, “No.” saved money for other things. By walking instead of taking the bus and by being tea total I was able to have a full social life, go home every holiday and make huge savings.
• If it’s cheaper to make it myself, I did. Many friends commented on the coasters I made from recycled yogurt lids (the big ones). This is also when I began learning how to cook.
• Looking after and maintaining my property caused it to last a lot longer meaning I didn’t need to budget for replacements. Simply being able to repair holes in clothing must have saved me a fortune.
There are lots of other tips available online for managing your family budget well. These ones worked well for me. If you would like help setting up a spreadsheet so that you can monitor your income and expenditure, please get in touch.